Be Prepared to REINVENT yourself
Be Prepare to Reinvent Yourself Take a hard look at your current company and industry and your current job situation.
Take a hard look at your market relative to your competitors. In reinventing yourself,stand back and think about starting your career over again today, knowing what you now know.
Imagine that your job and your industry disappeared over night.Imagine that you had to make brand new career choices.
If you were starting over again today, with your special combination of talents and skills, what would you choose to do that is different from what you are doing now?You are your most valuable assetyour most valuable financial asset is your earning ability, your ability to apply your talents and skills in the market place.
In reality, you could lose your home, your car, your bank account and your furniture and be left with nothing but the clothes on your back.But as long as your earning ability was intact, you could walk across the street and begin generating a good living almost immediately.Your earning ability is extremely precious to you, and your earning ability can be either appreciating asset or a depreciating asset.
your earning ability can grow in value if you continue to invest in and develop it. It can decline in value if you begin to take it for granted and start to coast on the basis of what you have done in the past.
Kathy Hamilton/simikathy
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Sunday, July 13, 2008
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Select the Belief you want
Heres todays lesson-
" Your problem is to bridge the gap between where you are now and the goals you intend to reach." -Earl Nightingale-
Select the Beliefs you want-
Imagine that there was " Belief Store", very much like a computer software store, where you could purchase a belief to program into your subconscious mind.
If you could choose any set of beliefs at all, which belief would be the most helpful to you??? Here is my suggestion.
Select this belief:
" I am destined to be a big success in life."
If you absolutely believe that you are destined to be a big success, you will walk, talk, and act as if everything that happens to you in life is part of a great plan to make you successful.
And as it happens, this is how the top people think in every field.
" Your problem is to bridge the gap between where you are now and the goals you intend to reach." -Earl Nightingale-
Select the Beliefs you want-
Imagine that there was " Belief Store", very much like a computer software store, where you could purchase a belief to program into your subconscious mind.
If you could choose any set of beliefs at all, which belief would be the most helpful to you??? Here is my suggestion.
Select this belief:
" I am destined to be a big success in life."
If you absolutely believe that you are destined to be a big success, you will walk, talk, and act as if everything that happens to you in life is part of a great plan to make you successful.
And as it happens, this is how the top people think in every field.
Thursday, July 10, 2008
YOU CHOOSE YOU DECIDE
Heres another session, hopefully you will apply it to your life. YOU CHOOSE, YOU DECIDE You have determined your entire life up to now by the choices and decisions you have made or failed to make. If there is anything in your life that you do not like, you are responsible. If there is any thing that you are unhappy about, it is up to you to take necessary steps to change and improve it so that it is more to your liking. You are completely responsible for everything you do and for the results of what you do. You are responsible for the consequences of your actions and your behaviors. You are where you are and what you are today because you have decided to be there. In a large sense, you are earning exactly what you have decided to earn, no more and no less. If you are not happy with your current income, decide to earn more. Set it as a goal, make a plan, and get busy doing what you need to do to earn what you want to earn. As the President of your own career and your own life, as the architect of your own destiny, you are free to make your own decisions. You are the boss. You are in charge.
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
Lessons for Business Building
If I have correct goals, and I keep pursuing them the best way I know how, everything else falls into line. If I do the right thing, I know I am going to succeed. -DAN DIERDORF- Top sales people are intensely goal oriented. In every study, the quality of goal orientation seems to be associated with high levels of success and achievement. The highest paid sales people know in advance how much they are going to earn each week, each month, each year. They know how many calls they will have to make to achieve a particular level of sales, and they have clear plans about what they are going to do with the money they earn. It is essential for your success that you decide exactly how much you intend to earn each year. If you are not absolutely clear about your earnings target, your sales activities will be unfocused. You will be like a person trying to shoot at a target in the fog. Even if you are the finest marksman in the world, you are not going to hit a target you can not see. You have to know exactly what you are aiming at.
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Each Day I will post something new for you to help you to learn. I think first you should know some ground rules to really know about Network Marketing but to my surprise it almost goes along with anything in your life. So before we start on the business building programs lets discover some key principles. Learn to absorb what I am telling you. If you follow the philosphy of it, all of you can actually start producing success like I did. But first you need to live and breath as if it is the air you actually breath. I know you have watched me grow from ground zero for those of you who have been around for the last 2 1/2 years. You can do what I have done if you set yourself to really believe in yourself. I am no different then you, if I can apply it to my life so can you all. First have a burning desire The starting point of all goal attainment is the desire. You must develop an intense burning desire for your goals if you really want to achieve them. Only when your desire becomes intense enough will you have the energy and internal drive to over come all the obstacles that will arise in your path. The good news is that almost anything that you want long enough and hard enough, you can ultimately achieve. The great oil billionaire H.L. Hunt was once asked the secret of success. He replied that success requires two things and two things only. First he said, you must know exactly what you want. Most people never make that decision. Second, he said, you must determine the price that you will have to pay to achieve it and then get busy paying that price.(NOT TALKING ABOUT MONEY) So if you apply these principles to your mind, soul and your being you can change your mind set. You have been programmed and already predominately set up to fail.It is your responsibilty to change your mind set and achieve what is already yours to take and have. Nothing stops me.I set myself up to get something and I go out and get it.You do not need to fail.
Kathy Hamilton/simikathy
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Each Day I will post something new for you to help you to learn. I think first you should know some ground rules to really know about Network Marketing but to my surprise it almost goes along with anything in your life. So before we start on the business building programs lets discover some key principles. Learn to absorb what I am telling you. If you follow the philosphy of it, all of you can actually start producing success like I did. But first you need to live and breath as if it is the air you actually breath. I know you have watched me grow from ground zero for those of you who have been around for the last 2 1/2 years. You can do what I have done if you set yourself to really believe in yourself. I am no different then you, if I can apply it to my life so can you all. First have a burning desire The starting point of all goal attainment is the desire. You must develop an intense burning desire for your goals if you really want to achieve them. Only when your desire becomes intense enough will you have the energy and internal drive to over come all the obstacles that will arise in your path. The good news is that almost anything that you want long enough and hard enough, you can ultimately achieve. The great oil billionaire H.L. Hunt was once asked the secret of success. He replied that success requires two things and two things only. First he said, you must know exactly what you want. Most people never make that decision. Second, he said, you must determine the price that you will have to pay to achieve it and then get busy paying that price.(NOT TALKING ABOUT MONEY) So if you apply these principles to your mind, soul and your being you can change your mind set. You have been programmed and already predominately set up to fail.It is your responsibilty to change your mind set and achieve what is already yours to take and have. Nothing stops me.I set myself up to get something and I go out and get it.You do not need to fail.
Kathy Hamilton/simikathy
skype me- simikathy
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
ASSOCIATE YOUR SELF WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE
One of the most important decisions that you make in life is your choice of the people with whom you habitually associate. Associate with the right people.
Spend time around winners, and get away from negitive people. Get away from people who complain and condemn and critize all the time. These toxic people depress you and take all the joy out of living.
After you have spent time with them, you feel discouraged and demotivated. Instead, choose your friends and associates with care.
As Baron de Rothschild said,"Make no useless acquantances."
Be perfectly selfish about the people with whom you choose to work and socialize.
Your "Reference group" will have more of an impact on your success and happiness than any other choices you make in life.
Your reference group is made up of people with whom you identify and associate most of the time.
If you fly with eagles, you will think and feel like an eagle.
If you associate with turkeys, you will think, walk,talk, and act like a turkey. The people around you have an inordinate influence on your personality, your opinions, your goals, and everything you accomplish.
Successful people are often described as loners. This does not mean that they are a-loners.
They have lots of friends, but they do not go out to lunch with whoever is standing by the door at the time.
They are selective in their relationships. They insist upon only spending time with people they enjoy and whose company they can benefit from.
You must do the same.
Kathy Hamilton/simikathy
skype-simikathy
Spend time around winners, and get away from negitive people. Get away from people who complain and condemn and critize all the time. These toxic people depress you and take all the joy out of living.
After you have spent time with them, you feel discouraged and demotivated. Instead, choose your friends and associates with care.
As Baron de Rothschild said,"Make no useless acquantances."
Be perfectly selfish about the people with whom you choose to work and socialize.
Your "Reference group" will have more of an impact on your success and happiness than any other choices you make in life.
Your reference group is made up of people with whom you identify and associate most of the time.
If you fly with eagles, you will think and feel like an eagle.
If you associate with turkeys, you will think, walk,talk, and act like a turkey. The people around you have an inordinate influence on your personality, your opinions, your goals, and everything you accomplish.
Successful people are often described as loners. This does not mean that they are a-loners.
They have lots of friends, but they do not go out to lunch with whoever is standing by the door at the time.
They are selective in their relationships. They insist upon only spending time with people they enjoy and whose company they can benefit from.
You must do the same.
Kathy Hamilton/simikathy
skype-simikathy
RUNNING BUT NOT HIDING/ A TRUE STORY WRITTEN BY MY DAUGHTER EMILY
Running But Not Hiding
You know I came from Domestic Violence alittle over 2 Years ago.
I had enough,The pain and Torture was just to much for me to continue my life the way it was. If I did not get out then I knew some one would wind up dead or in Jail.
I had to make a decision and make it fast and stick to it.
Theres so many things that Keep victims where there at but it takes alot of courage to get out and stay out.
You have no real mind left from all the years of abuse so any thing you do or say is not really you.
I had a real eye opener. after I left and started to rebuild my life piece by piece my Daughter had to write a story for her English paper for a final. Needless to say she did not tell me she wrote it,her teacher called me absolutely horrified over it.
He sent it to me and boy when I read it I cryed for hours knowing that this story is through the eyes of a babe.
The impact that we put our children through will devaste their lives forever.
The memories and the feelings seeing things,hearing things will haunt them for ever. I just hope I have built some kind of foundation that they can over come the horrible things we lived through.
Here is my Daughter Emilys Story.
Running but Not Hiding
"Why does this have to happen to me?" I whisper to myself as I'm curled up into a corner on top of my bed.
Smeared make-up burns my cheeks as the black eyeliner and mascara trickles down slowly making its way to my pillows and blankets.
" I don't think I can take much more of this. I can't stand to live here anymore. It's just getting too bad."
" God, please help me? Just help me get out of here, make my life better. I will do anything if you help me God, ANYTHING." I say this looking up at the ceiling, only hoping that God is listening, hoping that God will answer my prayers, and that God will listen to me.
All I hear in the background is my dad yelling.
"You are worthless, you are ugly and fat, I hope you die you fucking slut." those words jumble in my head as I think about what just happened.
There's nothing much that I can do except lay in my bed and cry.
I hear, Rick, my dad, yelling at my mom and the sound of my moms' painful screams as he throws punch after punch at her.
I sit here and cry and only hope she will be ok when he gets done with her. I'm not strong enough to fight against him. He will hurt me worse then I could possibly imagine, but I can't stand to sit here and let him hurt my mom like that. What am I supposed to do? Thousands of things race through my head at once, flash back after flask back, ideas, memories, pictures, people, everything.
The phone startles me as I hear my favorite ring tone, Summer Nights by Lil Rob, and I look over at the caller id and I see that its my best friend, Jessica. An instant smile emerges from my teary face. Jessica has always been my best friend. We have been best friends since before I could possibly remember. She's the one
person that has always made me happy. I answer the phone and she immediately responds with " HEY LOVE! How are you?"
She knows something is wrong when I don't say a word and she can hear me crying in the background. "Emily, what happened? Talk to me. You're scaring me." My eyes overflow with tears and just pour out. It's something I can't control but I don't want Jessica to worry.
" I'm coming right now Emily, everything's going to be ok, I love you," replies Jessica.
I lay on my bed squeezing my teddy bear that Jessica got me for Christmas as I think about how grateful I am to have such a wonderful best friend like her to help me get through these rough times in my life. She's more like a sister to me. She has always been there for me, through thick and through thin; I can always count on her. Jessica lives down the street approximately five minutes away. Over all the yelling at my mom from Rick, I hear the doorbell ring. I'm worried about how Rick will react to Jessica coming over. I peek out my bedroom door and just briefly get a glimpse of Jessica at the door.
"What do you want?!" says Rick
"I would like to talk with Emily real fast."
"Well she is not available right now, so you can't see her. Come back later maybe."
"Well it's really important sir, my mom needs me to ask her something."
"What do you need to ask her? I will pass it on to her."
" Well see sir, it's kind of private."
" NOTHING is private in my house. LEAVE THIS INSTANT!" Rick yells as loud as he can.
I burst into tears at this point. "Why does Rick have to make my life like this? Why is he such a horrible person? Why did this have to happen to me? WHY ME?"
I learned to try not to disobey Rick or I will get beat and that's one thing I can't take. I can't take him beating me and calling me bad names and the cursing. It kills me inside. I hear my phone ring again and I answer it and it is Jessica.
"Emily, tell me what happened NOW!"
"Well he was really drunk and he came in my room to talk to me. Then he started talking nasty to me telling me how I'm a foxy girl and how I have great boobs and legs and that is when my mom comes in and she yells at him to get out. He says to my mom, "You're lucky I haven't raped her yet." My mom was furious and flipped out on him for saying that about me. Then he started beating her. I watched him beat my mom. I watched her suffer and I know there wasn't anything that I can do about it. All I hear is his loud voice yelling and cursing. I can't take it anymore, Jessica, I just can't do it." Jessica loses her breath. She was so shocked about what I just told her. " I wish there was something I can do to help, Emily." replies Jess.
" I'm going to ask my mom if you can stay with me for awhile. Everything will be ok babe. Don't worry about it, I promise." Says Jessica.
As she left I was getting ready to go to bed. I tucked my sheets and blankets around me and moved around until I found this cozy warm spot on my bed. I start to fall into this deep sleep. Thousands of things are rushing through my head at once: Chris, Rick, mom, my past, Jessica, all my friends, and a better life. I try to fall asleep listening to Rick's drunken ass yell for no reason. As he yells I start to have flash back him...
I remember his loud voice, him always telling me I'm worthless and nothing, I remember him beating me and smiling. With all the bad memories that I have of him, such as how he made me half-deaf from him yelling so much around me while I was a baby, I realize he's part of the reason I have such low self -esteem. He's the reason I never got close to a father like figure. I awoke screaming and crying. I was happy that my mother got rid of my Him. It was hard for me to call anyone "dad" for that exact reason. We needed to escape and have a better life than this. My mom walks into my room and the crackling of the door opening slowly startles me. She asks me if I'm ok and I tell her that I'm just concerned about her right now. She tells me her plan for moving. She wants to get away, make our life better. She doesn't like how are life is now. We are suppose to able to live happily and we aren't happy here.
"Where will we go mom?"
"Em, I don't believe I can answer that right now, not even I know."
"Mom, I know as well as you do that we can't make it on our own. How are we going to do it?"
"We will figure out a way, we always seem to manage and you know that."
"I love you, Mom..."
"I love you, Emmy. I'm trying to make this better for us. You shouldn't have to live like this, I'm sorry for putting you through all of this."
"It's ok... I know you only wanted the best for us."
"I tried to make our life the best. I didn't mean my life to turn out like this."
"I'm going to try to sell everything while he's gone and that way we have money to move. I want to move as far away from him as possible. We need to start our lives over. This will be better for us honey, you and I both know that. This is what we have been waiting for."
"I hope you are right mom... I don't know how much more of this I can take."
"Plan for us to be gone by Tuesday, which leaves you with three days to get everything packed and have your good-byes said to everyone."
"Are we really doing this?"
"Yes... finally... we're breaking free."
All I can do is break down and cry at this point. I don't know what to say to what my mom just told me. She wraps her arms around me to comfort me. I am crying for everything I'm leaving. "How am I suppose to leave to a whole new state in the middle of my sophomore year? How am I suppose to leave Jessica?" I whisper to myself. It kills me inside at the fact that I have to leave my best friend, the one person that has been there for me ALWAYS and FOREVER. I had to tell her since I would be leaving in less then three days... I just didn't know how I was going to tell her. How was I going to do this without breaking down? I don't think I can leave her not even if my life is this bad. I would go through anything to be with her. I couldn't imagine my life without her.
The next morning I go to school, it was the normal routine, wake up, shower, eat, do my
hair, do my make up and walk to school. The only thing different today was I was extremely sad and everyone could tell. All I heard all day was " What's wrong, Emily?" I didn't want to talk to anyone; I couldn't find the courage to tell people about what's happening. Jessica had to be the first person I told... and I'm going to make sure of that. Jess comes up to me while I'm at my locker first thing in the morning and she gives me her normal hug but she can tell something was bugging me so I had to tell her what was wrong.
"Jessica, my mom just told me we are moving Tuesday..." I reply. Tears start to ball up in my eyes and I can't keep them in.
"Are you serious?" " You must be joking " Jess replied.
"My mom wants to start over, have a better life, she wants to move to a different state, we don't really know where we are moving to yet but it's a for sure thing this time."
"I don't know what to say..." tears start to build up in Jessica's eyes and it brings me so much pain.
My last days here are spent with my friends. I had the most memorable and amazing times of my life, probably the only times that I was actually happy living in California.
Tuesday morning comes and everything is packed and we shove the boxes into our van and leave on our way with our "new life" as my mom calls it. She decided to move to Renton in Washington. It's been a long journey for my mom and me. This trip has made us grow closer to each other then ever before. When we finally got settled in, I meet this girl and her name was Ashley. Little did I know, this girl would change my life drastically. As I slowly get to know her we become better friends. She introduces me to people that will soon become my close friends and most importantly she becomes my best friend and we become inseparable. I start to love my life and even though it was a hard adjustment, it was probably the best decision my mom and I made. Someone once told me " If you have hit rock bottom, things can't get any worse, they can only get better." I will come to realize that this is the quote of my life and actually what has happened to me. My life did get better and now I never have to worry about being hit again and I don't have to live in fear anymore. Sometimes making a change is the best thing to do even though it seems like it would be hard. Now all I can do is think of my future and never have to turn back and hide. No longer will I hide from my fears, I will face them and nothing will put me down anymore.
You know I came from Domestic Violence alittle over 2 Years ago.
I had enough,The pain and Torture was just to much for me to continue my life the way it was. If I did not get out then I knew some one would wind up dead or in Jail.
I had to make a decision and make it fast and stick to it.
Theres so many things that Keep victims where there at but it takes alot of courage to get out and stay out.
You have no real mind left from all the years of abuse so any thing you do or say is not really you.
I had a real eye opener. after I left and started to rebuild my life piece by piece my Daughter had to write a story for her English paper for a final. Needless to say she did not tell me she wrote it,her teacher called me absolutely horrified over it.
He sent it to me and boy when I read it I cryed for hours knowing that this story is through the eyes of a babe.
The impact that we put our children through will devaste their lives forever.
The memories and the feelings seeing things,hearing things will haunt them for ever. I just hope I have built some kind of foundation that they can over come the horrible things we lived through.
Here is my Daughter Emilys Story.
Running but Not Hiding
"Why does this have to happen to me?" I whisper to myself as I'm curled up into a corner on top of my bed.
Smeared make-up burns my cheeks as the black eyeliner and mascara trickles down slowly making its way to my pillows and blankets.
" I don't think I can take much more of this. I can't stand to live here anymore. It's just getting too bad."
" God, please help me? Just help me get out of here, make my life better. I will do anything if you help me God, ANYTHING." I say this looking up at the ceiling, only hoping that God is listening, hoping that God will answer my prayers, and that God will listen to me.
All I hear in the background is my dad yelling.
"You are worthless, you are ugly and fat, I hope you die you fucking slut." those words jumble in my head as I think about what just happened.
There's nothing much that I can do except lay in my bed and cry.
I hear, Rick, my dad, yelling at my mom and the sound of my moms' painful screams as he throws punch after punch at her.
I sit here and cry and only hope she will be ok when he gets done with her. I'm not strong enough to fight against him. He will hurt me worse then I could possibly imagine, but I can't stand to sit here and let him hurt my mom like that. What am I supposed to do? Thousands of things race through my head at once, flash back after flask back, ideas, memories, pictures, people, everything.
The phone startles me as I hear my favorite ring tone, Summer Nights by Lil Rob, and I look over at the caller id and I see that its my best friend, Jessica. An instant smile emerges from my teary face. Jessica has always been my best friend. We have been best friends since before I could possibly remember. She's the one
person that has always made me happy. I answer the phone and she immediately responds with " HEY LOVE! How are you?"
She knows something is wrong when I don't say a word and she can hear me crying in the background. "Emily, what happened? Talk to me. You're scaring me." My eyes overflow with tears and just pour out. It's something I can't control but I don't want Jessica to worry.
" I'm coming right now Emily, everything's going to be ok, I love you," replies Jessica.
I lay on my bed squeezing my teddy bear that Jessica got me for Christmas as I think about how grateful I am to have such a wonderful best friend like her to help me get through these rough times in my life. She's more like a sister to me. She has always been there for me, through thick and through thin; I can always count on her. Jessica lives down the street approximately five minutes away. Over all the yelling at my mom from Rick, I hear the doorbell ring. I'm worried about how Rick will react to Jessica coming over. I peek out my bedroom door and just briefly get a glimpse of Jessica at the door.
"What do you want?!" says Rick
"I would like to talk with Emily real fast."
"Well she is not available right now, so you can't see her. Come back later maybe."
"Well it's really important sir, my mom needs me to ask her something."
"What do you need to ask her? I will pass it on to her."
" Well see sir, it's kind of private."
" NOTHING is private in my house. LEAVE THIS INSTANT!" Rick yells as loud as he can.
I burst into tears at this point. "Why does Rick have to make my life like this? Why is he such a horrible person? Why did this have to happen to me? WHY ME?"
I learned to try not to disobey Rick or I will get beat and that's one thing I can't take. I can't take him beating me and calling me bad names and the cursing. It kills me inside. I hear my phone ring again and I answer it and it is Jessica.
"Emily, tell me what happened NOW!"
"Well he was really drunk and he came in my room to talk to me. Then he started talking nasty to me telling me how I'm a foxy girl and how I have great boobs and legs and that is when my mom comes in and she yells at him to get out. He says to my mom, "You're lucky I haven't raped her yet." My mom was furious and flipped out on him for saying that about me. Then he started beating her. I watched him beat my mom. I watched her suffer and I know there wasn't anything that I can do about it. All I hear is his loud voice yelling and cursing. I can't take it anymore, Jessica, I just can't do it." Jessica loses her breath. She was so shocked about what I just told her. " I wish there was something I can do to help, Emily." replies Jess.
" I'm going to ask my mom if you can stay with me for awhile. Everything will be ok babe. Don't worry about it, I promise." Says Jessica.
As she left I was getting ready to go to bed. I tucked my sheets and blankets around me and moved around until I found this cozy warm spot on my bed. I start to fall into this deep sleep. Thousands of things are rushing through my head at once: Chris, Rick, mom, my past, Jessica, all my friends, and a better life. I try to fall asleep listening to Rick's drunken ass yell for no reason. As he yells I start to have flash back him...
I remember his loud voice, him always telling me I'm worthless and nothing, I remember him beating me and smiling. With all the bad memories that I have of him, such as how he made me half-deaf from him yelling so much around me while I was a baby, I realize he's part of the reason I have such low self -esteem. He's the reason I never got close to a father like figure. I awoke screaming and crying. I was happy that my mother got rid of my Him. It was hard for me to call anyone "dad" for that exact reason. We needed to escape and have a better life than this. My mom walks into my room and the crackling of the door opening slowly startles me. She asks me if I'm ok and I tell her that I'm just concerned about her right now. She tells me her plan for moving. She wants to get away, make our life better. She doesn't like how are life is now. We are suppose to able to live happily and we aren't happy here.
"Where will we go mom?"
"Em, I don't believe I can answer that right now, not even I know."
"Mom, I know as well as you do that we can't make it on our own. How are we going to do it?"
"We will figure out a way, we always seem to manage and you know that."
"I love you, Mom..."
"I love you, Emmy. I'm trying to make this better for us. You shouldn't have to live like this, I'm sorry for putting you through all of this."
"It's ok... I know you only wanted the best for us."
"I tried to make our life the best. I didn't mean my life to turn out like this."
"I'm going to try to sell everything while he's gone and that way we have money to move. I want to move as far away from him as possible. We need to start our lives over. This will be better for us honey, you and I both know that. This is what we have been waiting for."
"I hope you are right mom... I don't know how much more of this I can take."
"Plan for us to be gone by Tuesday, which leaves you with three days to get everything packed and have your good-byes said to everyone."
"Are we really doing this?"
"Yes... finally... we're breaking free."
All I can do is break down and cry at this point. I don't know what to say to what my mom just told me. She wraps her arms around me to comfort me. I am crying for everything I'm leaving. "How am I suppose to leave to a whole new state in the middle of my sophomore year? How am I suppose to leave Jessica?" I whisper to myself. It kills me inside at the fact that I have to leave my best friend, the one person that has been there for me ALWAYS and FOREVER. I had to tell her since I would be leaving in less then three days... I just didn't know how I was going to tell her. How was I going to do this without breaking down? I don't think I can leave her not even if my life is this bad. I would go through anything to be with her. I couldn't imagine my life without her.
The next morning I go to school, it was the normal routine, wake up, shower, eat, do my
hair, do my make up and walk to school. The only thing different today was I was extremely sad and everyone could tell. All I heard all day was " What's wrong, Emily?" I didn't want to talk to anyone; I couldn't find the courage to tell people about what's happening. Jessica had to be the first person I told... and I'm going to make sure of that. Jess comes up to me while I'm at my locker first thing in the morning and she gives me her normal hug but she can tell something was bugging me so I had to tell her what was wrong.
"Jessica, my mom just told me we are moving Tuesday..." I reply. Tears start to ball up in my eyes and I can't keep them in.
"Are you serious?" " You must be joking " Jess replied.
"My mom wants to start over, have a better life, she wants to move to a different state, we don't really know where we are moving to yet but it's a for sure thing this time."
"I don't know what to say..." tears start to build up in Jessica's eyes and it brings me so much pain.
My last days here are spent with my friends. I had the most memorable and amazing times of my life, probably the only times that I was actually happy living in California.
Tuesday morning comes and everything is packed and we shove the boxes into our van and leave on our way with our "new life" as my mom calls it. She decided to move to Renton in Washington. It's been a long journey for my mom and me. This trip has made us grow closer to each other then ever before. When we finally got settled in, I meet this girl and her name was Ashley. Little did I know, this girl would change my life drastically. As I slowly get to know her we become better friends. She introduces me to people that will soon become my close friends and most importantly she becomes my best friend and we become inseparable. I start to love my life and even though it was a hard adjustment, it was probably the best decision my mom and I made. Someone once told me " If you have hit rock bottom, things can't get any worse, they can only get better." I will come to realize that this is the quote of my life and actually what has happened to me. My life did get better and now I never have to worry about being hit again and I don't have to live in fear anymore. Sometimes making a change is the best thing to do even though it seems like it would be hard. Now all I can do is think of my future and never have to turn back and hide. No longer will I hide from my fears, I will face them and nothing will put me down anymore.
YOUR LIFE CREATE IT
1. Imagine that there is a solution to every problem, a way to overcome every limitation, and no limit on your achieving every goal you can set for yourself.
What would you do differently?
2. Practice "back from the future thinking." Project forward five years and look back to the present.
What would have to happened for your world to be ideal?
3. Imagine your financial life was perfect in every way. How much would you be earning? How much would you be worth? What steps could you take starting today, to make these goals a reality?
4.Imagine your family and personal life was perfect. What would it look like? What should you start doing more of, or less of, starting today?
5. Plan your perfect calendar. Design your year from Jan.to Dec. as if you had no limitations. What would you change, starting today?
6.Imagine that your levels of health and fitness were perfect in every way. What could you do, starting today, to make your vision for yourself into a reality?
These are things you need to think about and be asking yourself every single day. You need to have a blue print of your goals and desires made up.
Kathy Hamilton/simikathy
What would you do differently?
2. Practice "back from the future thinking." Project forward five years and look back to the present.
What would have to happened for your world to be ideal?
3. Imagine your financial life was perfect in every way. How much would you be earning? How much would you be worth? What steps could you take starting today, to make these goals a reality?
4.Imagine your family and personal life was perfect. What would it look like? What should you start doing more of, or less of, starting today?
5. Plan your perfect calendar. Design your year from Jan.to Dec. as if you had no limitations. What would you change, starting today?
6.Imagine that your levels of health and fitness were perfect in every way. What could you do, starting today, to make your vision for yourself into a reality?
These are things you need to think about and be asking yourself every single day. You need to have a blue print of your goals and desires made up.
Kathy Hamilton/simikathy
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